The road is long...with many a winding turn that leads us to who knows where, who knows where?
But I'm strong, strong enough to carry him...He ain't heavy, he's my brother
Yes, my featured artist interviews are about musicians. But musicians are people with stories to tell that often go deeper than the music they write and perform. It wasn't until I sat down to prepare for my interview with Danny Sparks, that it occurred to me how I had unconsciously stayed away from the more personal questions with my guests. Chalk it up to inexperience, or an unwritten rule about privacy and personal space that was surely pounded into my brain as a kid. Either way, it seemed like hallowed ground and therefore no place to tread.
First some back story...Danny and I became reacquainted one night when he wandered into a local Restaurant & Bar called McPhersons in Greensboro, where I was performing. It had been years since we had seen each other, but I recognized his face immediately. He used to stop in quite regularly when I played there more frequently several years ago, so after such a notable absence, it was naturally a surprise. During my break we struck up a conversation. The story he set about telling me filled in all the details and answered questions about what had happened to him. By the time he finished, I was at a loss for words to say and it must have showed on my face. And yet, despite what could only be described as the perfect storm of unfortunate events he shared with me, there was excitement and fire in his voice. He had finally solidified his connection with God and begun writing songs during his travails. I asked him if he would let me interview him and he responded " Sure." almost before I could finish the question. Of course that led to me asking if he would feel comfortable enough to share the story he told me, with my audience. A contemplative expression came across his face as he pondered the prospect. Fighting through an instinctual desire to keep it all to himself, he agreed.
Danny tells the story better than I could and you will get more from it if I don't "set it up" ahead of time. we progressed into talking about what has been a challenging path for him the past few years. It is often hard enough for most of us to discuss personal trials in privacy, one-on-one with a trusted friend, but to be able to share it with me on camera and in turn allow me to present it you, well... that's another thing all together. I heard a phrase recently that seems appropo here which is... "We make plans and God laughs". None of us knows just what we will face along our journeys and how we deal with the hand we are dealt is what determines the outcome and quality of our existance.
Each of us has a story that wants to be told, but even more, that needs to be heard by someone... anyone. Though there are flashes of expressions on his face that belie the fact that there is still healing to be done, Danny's outlook and attitude are positive and fuel his newfound desire to write, record and release music with an uplifting message. I wish him all the success he desires and deserves.
Some Links of Interest:
- "Is This Real" by Danny Sparks on YouTube
- The Hollies
- "He Ain't Heavy, He's My Brother" on Youtube
- Pianist Luguzy Atkins
- Two Egrets Media & Recording Studio, our host for the interview.
- My YouTube Channel where videos will all be available after they've been published in my blog.